Friday, October 31, 2008

that was a stupid quarell...

wew...
i had a one week cold war with a very close friend...
Ra and i always go home together this made us very close with each other...

some time before the second quarter ended...
she suddenly told me "ayaw na pagkig kuyog nako oi, pagkat.on sad ug uli ug ikaw ra..."
i told her in a joking manner "ngeee.. ako diay magkig dungan nimo???"
she kept on tellnig me those words for almost a week...
i already got pissed off with her but... she's my friend... i think she's just concerned with me... or what

october 20 was the deadline supposed to be for the submission of application forms for usc-tc
but it was extended till october 21 since most of the students don't have their 2x2 pics...

i went down with some friends to have our picture taken...
we just went to a nearby photo center...
we had our picture taken then we can claim it after 15 mins...
my friends asked me to claim their pics because they'll be going home nah...
i said yes and i ran back to school to get my bag and go home with Ra and Fr waiting for me upstairs...

when i got there.. it was almst 5 pm
i saw Ra, Fr with Hartel... they said we'll go nah coz it's almost 5...
i immediately agreed because i'll still go and get the pics...

we packed up and went down...
when we were nearing the gates they stopped and continued chatting...
i told them i'll go ahead na lng coz i'll still get the pics and i'll just ride "ibabao-lacion.."

Ra said, "ayaw lang magdungan tah... "
Hartel also insisted that we'll go home together...
i told Ra, "abi ko dili na ka ganahan magkuyog tah..."
Ra immediately took back everything she said, "oi! wa jud ko na ingon ana! kuyog ta ha!"
"ah! dali a naka bali ug storya oh!..."
Hartel said, "kuyog nlng gud tah pao..."

i cooled down... and said yes to her invitation...
she said we'll just meet at Julie's bakeshop... then i hurriedly went to the photo center...
it was just for a very short while because the pics were all done when i got there...

i immediately ran to our rendezvouz...
when i got there... tsk3.... they weren't there yet... and i really hate waiting...
i went back to school... when i reached the school.. they were stll there...
talking chatting blah blah...
out of my anger i shouted even though i was outside the gate... "pagklaro mo diha oi!!!"

i walked towards the church place... and was about to ride a "compre-lacion" jitney...
Hartel hurriedly shouted...
i waited for her and she kept on saying sorry and i told her i'm not angry with her...
Fr asked where i will be heading.. i told them, "going home"
Ra asked where... i didn't answer her coz i might say something wrong...

that night i talked with one of my closest girl friend...
i told her everything that happened and came up with a solution...
i was planning to "tagad" her on wednesday.. not on tuesday just to cool down everything...

october 21 afternoon... i went home immediately without even telling them that i'll be going ahead of them...
in a phone call, my friend told me nga gitabangan daw xa nila ni Fr and Ra with N...
she said that Ra was crying, Fr was was murmuring and N was just standing...

Fr and N stood their ground saying that it's my fault...
Fr instantly condemned me saying.. "ayaw pagsorry niya! iya man nang sala!"
that very moment, i decided that since they've judged me even without asking me what was the cause...

the room was very quite for half a week...
our barkada circle was divded into 3... MC ate alone... clueless of what's happening, Ze and I ate together with Hartel, N and Ra ate together, Fr with Harvey...
that was the setting of the classroom till monday...

Cl tried to reconcile both of us, but i guess it didn't work...
told her that if i'll be asking for Ra's forgiveness, it will just seem that i'm accepting their judgement...
i told Cl that if it wasn't for Fr's immediate reaction, we could have already cooled down...

the next day, unexpectedly, while i was slouching Fr approached and said that we need to talk...
she said sorry for reacting that way... "nahangin ra mn gud ko... sorry ha..."
i said nothing and smiled... and went back to sleep...

i planned to reconcile with Ra as soon as possible...
the next day Oct 28, Ra sent me a chocolate with a letter... letter of apology...

then on oct. 29, mdm Flo tld me that Ra and I need to reconcile...
then that's it... i approached her and told her what is needed to be told...


nanghayhay sa kakapoi,
dodge

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